I woke up this morning feeling forlorn. As a lover of pen to paper (better yet--key to screen), going weeks without real writing is a lonely experience. Granted--there is never an excuse for failure of expression, but in my case--I had a lot to think about in the past month before feeling comfortable enough to say something worthy of your reading. So--here goes.
Life doesn't always go the way we have planned. Sometimes the best advice that one person can give to another is to just "let it go." I heard a message from Bishop T.D. Jakes which discussed the power of letting go. Letting go, sometimes is the best thing that a person can do for the benefit of themselves. As adults, we always want to hold on to plans that we have, relationships that we hope might work, comfortable situations, and a variety of other things. This is what we think makes someone grown up. The fact that we can withstand pain and hurt, and wrong things for our lives. What I have learned is that the mature adult--can let go, when they have to.
An adult realizes that people will walk away from you. T.D Jakes says, when people walk away from you--let them walk. If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life--let it go. If you are holding on to past hurts and pains--let it go. If someone can't treat you right, love you back and see your worth--let it go. If someone has angered you--let it go. If you are holding on to thoughts of revenge--let it go. If you have a bad attitude--let it go. If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better--let it go. If you are stuck in the past--let it go. Move on to the next level of your life. If you are feeling depressed and stressed--let it go.
Imagine how wonderfully free a person will feel, when they find the strength to let go of every worry. There is freedom in forgiveness and there is freedom in letting things go.
Yours truly.
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